Prenatal healing

Every culture, every religion and every tribe has rituals around death. Though they vary significantly, they all involve honoring the departed and supporting the grieving.  

Miscarriages, unsuccessful IVF’s, and abortions are deaths, but the departed soul seldom get the honor they deserve. Sometimes they are hidden from society and even loved ones. There is shame, guilt, regret and sadness that gets buried in the mothers heart and remains unexpressed for years to come. 

The cremation happens in trash bags and toilet bowls. There is very little respect and reverence that the soul receives. The memory of the departed is locked up deep in the mothers psyche. These unprocessed feelings may affect the mother in unexpected places in life and she could very well carry it for the rest of her life. The vibrations from the departed soul can linger or even interfere with the well-being of living children and parents. The mothers guilt and sadness might interfere with the soul's onward journey.

The reason I am writing this article is to bring forward the awareness of death rituals for the unborn. I have had two miscarriages and only later in life I realized how they had affected me. 

Since my first son was born I struggled to find answers to issues that seem to have not much of a medical significance. My older son's night terrors were extremely painful to me but didn’t carry much weight in the medical world. My relentless effort to find answers to this and several other concerns led me on a path to leave my corporate job and become a healer.  

Through emotional/energy healing I found relief in several areas of my life. The most significant resolutions came about when I addressed  the unborn soul’s from my miscarriages and from my mothers miscarriage that happened before my birth. Healing the traumas of my time in my mothers womb and my children’s time in my womb significantly shifted the needle for our family. 

During the 9 months in the womb, the child is not just growing physically, he/she is also growing psychologically and spiritually. It is not just the emotional ups and downs that the baby absorbs, it also takes on the habit patterns of the parents and they get written in the rule book of the child's programming. 

Abortions are socially delicate topics and I am not here to pick sides. I hold no judgment against any mother whatsoever. 

I am here to urge you to honor the unborn who have departed. I am here to urge you to shower love on anyone around you who is pregnant. I am here to urge you to heal any pain you or your children went through while in the womb or during birth. 

I am here to be the voice of the tiny thinking feeling human who couldn’t see the world, but certainly didn’t want to end up in a dump yard. I am here to be the voice of the fetus that felt scared when she heard fights and arguments. I am here to be the voice of the child who is negatively manifesting the impressions from his/her time in the womb in the form of physical and emotional issues. 

I am here to ask to-be moms to heal her past traumas/fears and go into pregnancy with happy and positive thoughts. Your thoughts even during conception become the blueprint of the child's DNA. The super absorbent fetus takes on everything given to it as its reality. 

There are several ways of healing and it is a topic for another blog. Happy to talk to anyone who feels ready to let go or needs support. 

I live in deep gratitude for my tribe, soul sisters/brothers who came along and poured their love and wisdom to help me heal, learn and grow. Redikall insights have helped me understand the story from the unborns perspective and I wish to take the mission forward and reach hospital and mothers to offer honorable cremation to the aborted/miscarried/IVF babies. I wish to educate and heal mothers through their motherhood journey, no matter where they currently stand.

Live well ! 

Sapna